Monday, October 29, 2012

Soccer, Futbol... Same Thing to Me

I have never been a big fan of soccer. I used to play it when I was younger, but once I noticed cramps under my ribs from running I threw in the towel. NOPE! Not the sport for me! I think that is where my love for the sport stopped, or at least my lack of caring started.

My HS crush, and Jr. Prom date!
During high school I loved going to the boys soccer games, mainly because I was crushing really hard on one player in particular. Anything to spend more time with a crush right? What was the best part was the fact that I was the Athletic Trainer, so I got to sit on the sidelines and enjoy the sport from the bench. Being in the stadium doesn't compare to sitting on the sidelines.

Anyways, soccer, I mean futbol is a huge deal in Europe. Did I say huge deal? I meant HUGE DEAL. Living in Naples if you are not a Napoli futbol fan you better not be a fan of anyone! You will read why in a moment.

Last night, Marito and I went to our first futbol match. The hotel we are so fond of, took the liberty to get tickets and a bus and a group of 25 went to the game together. Fortunately, this game wasn't a big deal. The team we played was ranked 18th and Napoli is ranked 2nd.

During the game I payed more attention to the crowd than to the teams. The fans bring HUGE banderas (flags) and wave them around throughout the entire game. I would think it is obnoxious if I was sitting where the flags were! Next thing I know, the fans are chanting and jumping up and down, but only in particular sections. I hear that each section has loyal fans and they do their own thing. It made me feel like I was at a college football or basketball game. The passion these fans have is intense!

Before I know it there is a cloud of smoke coming from the crowds on both ends where the goals are, and the fans are igniting flares! One of the guys with me said to wait until they set off Sulfur Bombs. Oh dear lord!

Across the way from my seats was an area caged off. This is where the visitors sit. They have to sit in a cage because the fans will throw bottles, trash, and debris at them. Security is tight around the visitors because the passion is so extreme the fans will hurt fans of the other team.

Italy used to issuse license plates to citizens with the first two letters being the first two letters of what town that person lives in (ie: Naples- NA, Milan- MI). When rival teams like Milan play in Naples, if you have MI on your license plate you would be attacked! Therefore they stopped doing lisence plates this way.

If you go to a game, which the stadium is right down the road from JFC in Agano, make sure you do your research. DO NOT wear the opposing team colors! You might regret it later.

The next big game is November 17th. Naples vs Milan! I am sure the game will sell out, and the crowd will be uncontrollable, but the college student inside me cannot wait to go to the game! To feel the energy and excitement of such a rival game, it is going to be surreal.

Check out the Flags and the flares in the video.






PS- For the ladies! If you go to a game, please bring tissues. The toilets are little holes in the floor and if you don't have any tissue, you will either hold your bladder or drip dry!

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Moving In and House Guests

The past two weeks have been exhausting but exhillerating.

Marito and I finally moved into our new home on October 10th. We had our Household Goods set up to arrive that day, as well as our Full Time Temporary Furniture (washer, dryer, stove, wardrobes etc.). I had also gone to the NEX to get some new furniture that we bought to be delivered that same day.

It was a little chaotic to have all three moving trucks arriving at our house at the same time, but it worked out to the HHG movers advantage. Our King and Queen size beds were difficult to carry up the stairs so they used the other movers to relay our matresses and boxsprings through the patio doors from one floor to another.

By the time the movers were almost done unloading our boxes I felt bad for them and just told them to put the rest of the boxes in the garage. I also told them not to unpack anything. Too many wives tales about the movers telling the Mafia or Gypsies what is in my house and us getting robbed. Thanks but no thanks, whether that is true or not, I will unpack my own stuff.

I didn't have any food for the movers, but I had plenty of bottled water. Good thing too becuase it was a very warm day for them to move 6 crates of boxes and furniture.

Marito with some of his buddies from the Enterprise
Our drunk friend in the pool
Not even a full week later I had a line of people to pick up from the airport because the USS Enterprise was pulling into Naples. I did a TON of driving back an forth, picking people up, dropping them off and basically being a tour guided taxi service. It was exhausting but made me feel so good to help. I was able to help two wives reunite on the pier, help a boyfriend surprise his girlfriend and then watch a proposal. Marito and I also picked up a few of his buddies from his former command and take them around town, grab some drinks and free wifi.One of the guys had a good enough time that he jumped into the pool (freezing) and paid a Hotel Guest at the Agora 50 euros to jump in too! When I wasn't with my house guests, I was at the Exchange sending sailors to get free wifi so they could FaceTime and connect with home.

I love helping people. I hopped on FaceBook and posted a few pictures of some random Sailors I met, and it happened to be a couple of guys that are husbands to some wives I know! I also saw a New dad from our last command and emailed his wife a picture. You just don't know how much joy it is for me to make other people happy, especially wives who haven't seen their husbands in 7 months.



With all of the driving I did, I learned a lot about downtown Naples, where the Liberty Boats pull in and that I hate driving on the Toll Roads!

Now that my friends are gone, it's back to getting the house organized and the last of the boxes unpacked. Getting ready for the next round of house guests coming next month!

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Getting a House In Naples

The housing process, where do I even begin?

When Marito and I first arrived in Naples, we were fortunate enough to meet a realtor that same day. A couple days later we were out looking at houses. We NEVER went through Housing to go on the trips to see homes out in town. They don't mind if you go through a realtor as long as he/she is listed with Housing and they know the procedure. Which was nice, I didn't have to worry about going on day trips to see houses when I have already found the home I want to move into.

We found our house on the fourth day of being here in Napoli. Awesome, we are going to be ahead of the game! After picking a house, I had to meet with my Landlord at Housing to make an appointment for the Landlord to bring in documents to prove his house was built legally. This was an extra step we had to go through because our Landlord hasn't rented to Americans in quite a while, and the appointment was about a week later.

Starting out I had heard many rumors about having to sign wavier if you decide to live in certain areas of Naples. This is true, at least it was. For instance, Lago Patria used to have high(er) crime rates, but over the years the area has cleaned up and the rates have dropped. The waiver is for your knowledge that you choose to live in this particular area. I am moving into Lago Patria, and have been in a hotel here for two months- if you look in the Panorama Newspaper you can keep an eye on what happens and where (break ins, robbery, car accidents etc). I haven't seen anything that has made me second guess our decision to live here. We are away from the valley where the smoke and smog like to collect, far enough away from base to leave work behind, and close to the water to get a great breeze through our windows.

Back to the paper work. Our Landlord brought in the documents showing our house was legal, but he was missing one paper or number and had to make yet another appointment for the following week. This was going to put us behind so I met the Landlord the NEXT day at Housing and asked to been seen. It wasn't a problem. Some people may have issues, but I did not.

After this we set an appointment to go into a pre-contract. When that day came, the owner and his two daughters (whoever is an owner must attend) met up at Housing and we went through the steps of signing a pre-contract. Here we discussed what the negotiations are. For us we wanted electric front gates, electric garage door, a couple extra AC units, wall paper removed, and new kitchen cabinets. Some people ask for maid services, yard service, even elevators to be installed. It all depends on how much money you are eligable for with your rank. I could live in the same house as a Commander, I just wouldn't be able to negotiate anywhere near as much as the Commander could, because the Commander makes more OHA (Overseas Housing Allowance). Once everyone is in an agreement, the pre-contract is signed and an Inspection date is set.

Our Landlord postponed the Inspection by a couple of days, which again put us behind schedule. Fortunately the inspection passed the first time! Some/most Landlords do not start working on your negotiations until the pre-contract is signed, which is why my Landlord pushed it back a few days, so he could have more time.

After you find out your house passed inspection, I advise you to go book your Contract appointment immediately. Delaying this can delay you from getting this appointment by a matter of a week or more some times. Which means you are in your hotel for even longer!

So now it is Contract signing time! Yay! Dedicate two hours for this because you will need an hour for the actual contract, and another hour to drop off a security deposit (Full month's rent worth), go to Residential Services and turn on Electricity, schedule your household good  (HHG) shipment and then go back to Housing to drop off a receipt.

You should get your keys the same day as your contract signing. Yippee!! But wait! It can take up to five working days before you get electricity, which mean you don't want you HHG to be delivered before hand- you won't be able to set your security alarm! Just something to keep in mind.

A few of my girlfriends from the hotel have already moved in, so I have been helping them clean before their furniture comes in, and then helping them unpack all of those boxes! It surely is a chore!

Since our Landlord took a few extra days, and had an extra hoop to go through, marito and I are now in a Short Term Lease with the hotel. This simply means we are now paying a reduced price with our OHA and Utilities Allowance to pay for the few extra nights here. To get Short Term Lease, you need to make sure the hotel has the extra room for you first!! Then you go to housing to make and appointment, then a couple days later go to the appointment to file for the money.

Housing seems like a broken process, but I would much rather go through their hassle with going in to make an appointment, wishing I could just be a walk in, than to have the Polizia come knocking at my door giving me an hours notice to get out of my house- all because it was illegally built. Keep an open mind through out the process and just enjoy being here, in Italy!

The Hotel Agora

Not too long ago I had written briefly about The Hotel Agora, where marito and I reside until our big move in day. I was taken aback when the owners had been forwarded my blog and they were so happy to hear my opinion about my home away from home. Now that our time is running short here I wanted to give Hotel Agora a real brag.

Two short months ago, marito and I were dropped off here not knowing a single soul, or where we even were. After a couple of weeks being cramped in a small room (which we purposely chose to not upgrade) marito and I were at each others neck. I learned that I needed to escape the hotel room. Out on the patio I met a fellow Facebook Friend Nicole, and her two children. After finding someone to connect with I started to make more connections. I learned the hotel staffs' names- Alfredo, Alessio, Alessandro, Bianca, Johnny, Johnny, and Raphaella, as well as the hotel regulars. Instead of learning the Italian language in my room on the computer, I started to practice it with the staff. I soon then met Christian and Jennifers (The Owners) and their family and really got to know everyone in the hotel.


Me, Christian, and Melissa
The atmosphere here is so relaxed, and happy. Now, not bouncing off the walls happy but very content happy. Every Friday during the summer the hotel cooks a BBQ, which I have talked about before. It's just very nice to know that come next summer we have a place to go to on Friday Nights to relive the good memories we have recently created.

On top of Friday nights, we took part in other activities such as Grilling on Tuesdays. One of the hotel regulars started to grill every Tuesday and it soon became a tradition. Which is nice when you are tired of eating from the same two restraunts and just want to have home cooked food. We dined on steaks, brats, pork, tender tips, kebobs, corn, beans, asparagus, fresh salsa and chips. You name it, we cooked it.

Wednesday nights are notorious for being Man's Night. The men all gather at 7 PM, buy round for each other and just have a night with out the women. There were times when Marito didn't come home until 2 AM because the men were having such a good time. This inevitably led into the creation of Ladies Night.

A couple weeks ago, two friends and myself decided it was time for the ladies to enjoy themselves. I remember the bartender bring out a round of Limoncello shots and saying "I love Ladies Night!" We had a great time! Every week we have had a couple more ladies come out, so hopefully we can keep the tradition going. We did just change it to Friday nights until the BBQ is back on this summer.

Speaking of BBQ, the last Friday in September is the last BBQ. This year the BBQ was themed Prom Night. The hotel had a Queens Tribute Band entertain us, as well as a DJ. With over 200 people in attendance, let's just say it was a ball! The hotel guest got to come for free, and those who weren't guest paid a cover charge that was donated to a couple of good causes: Animals Without Limits and Local Volunteers TNR. With other ways to fundraise money, almost $1,400 was raised to help spay, neuter, and provide basic veterinary care to the stray animals in Naples.

So, not only was the hotel involved in a great cause, they also gave us a great excuse to dress up! It was so nice to see the guys and girls dressed in their finest. We danced the Cupid Shuffle, the Cha Cha Slide, and of course the Macarana. It wouldn't have been a party with out grooving up on the chairs, so I did. That was how much fun I was having! Mind you, I wasn't dancing like it was my job!

All in all, I am looking forward to moving out of the hotel and finally getting my own place with marito. It saddens me to know that I can't just walk out onto the patio to get my entertainment while marito works, but I'll be right around the corner, I'm sure I will be stopping by quite often!